There is a circle, hidden in a secret corner, not publicized, not show off, people in the circle call themselves “puppet fans”.

This mysterious and niche group is keen on dressing up the sex dolls, taking care of their “daily life”, and taking them out for shooting, just as careful as they are with their loved ones.

The emotional shackles behind sex dolls in the world of adult loneliness

However, in the eyes of the outside world, sex dolls exist more to satisfy their need for sex.

Is a sex doll a sex tool or a human companion? Can it emotionally replace a real person? What impact will its existence have on the ethics of reality? The answers are varied.

Perhaps we can find clues in some stories.

I read a story online about a young man who sold sex dolls in Florida. Over the years, he has met countless customers or been told that there is a place there that sells sex dolls. There was no shortage of difficult customers. He has met all kinds of strange customers with all kinds of strange adaptation needs. In his opinion, such people could be called “perverts” and “pedophiles”.

But he has also met some “special” people who have shown him the loneliness of the adult world and the significance of the existence of sex dolls.

Andy is his first customer, a 20-year-old American otaku, after several consultations, he bought an anime series of sex dolls from Andy.

After receiving the doll, Andy would always chat about her daily life in his emails. Also in the process, he learned that Andy suffers from social phobia: he can't talk to people properly and feels extreme anxiety when facing strangers. But the desire inside made him take the first step to communicate: buying a sex doll.

Later, when he saw the dolls Andy shared, he was no longer a lonely doll in his daily life, but himself, with a smile on his face.

Mr. Emura was perhaps the most difficult customer he had ever encountered.

In terms of weight, silicone is too heavy and easily stained, replace it with TPE; in terms of material, a certificate is required to prove that it is new; in terms of hair, the specified material is required; in terms of skin color, there can't be a color difference ...... not even a difference of 2mm between the two eyes can be considered.

But the history of these requirements is somewhat confusing.

Mr. Goumura is a man of extraordinary ability. His busy schedule has made him a “trapeze artist” who spends all year either at the airport or in the airport. He longed to make a lot of money so that he could retire early and enjoy his family.

So when his children were born, he was not with his wife; when he grew up, he was sent to work part-time, and it was difficult to see one another; his father died, his wife left with cancer, and he later realized that ...... you have struggled for your whole life, and even if you have the economic right, you don't have a family member who is always there for you.

Mr. Okamura's custom-made shemale sex dolls reflect his wife's appearance at different times. “When we first got married, she was skinny; when she was pregnant and smiled, she had a double chin; and at 30, the corners of her eyes were covered with wrinkles,” Mr. Okamura said gently. “The doll sobbed slightly as she spoke.”

The Belgian couple who also encountered customized sex dolls refused to take orders due to legal restrictions and “pedophilia,” but after a video call with a Belgian customer, they volunteered to request custom manufacturing and delivery.

In their video, the room was filled with cartoon characters, a pink crib and countless stuffed animals, but no children.

As it turns out, their only daughter died in a car accident, and age and medical reasons prevented them from having another child. As soon as they opened their eyes, they would think of their departed daughter and were immersed in the grief of their last years. After much deliberation, I decided to “create” a child.

Later, when they received the doll, both of them burst into tears in the video, saying, “This is just like our daughter.”

That's the end of the story. He may have met all sorts of clients with all sorts of needs, but what can be said about the love and sincerity behind him?

Many times we do something and those around us are reassured by many forces or reasons, but subconsciously it is reassurance on behalf of those who accompany us.

When we were young, we “communicated” with various toys and models. When we grow up, we raise cats and dogs, tell them difficult words, share emotions that strangers can not understand. But he was just looking for a companion.

As you can see from the story above, sex dolls can really alleviate the lack of emotion. Despite the sex doll's silence being placed in a sex doll storage case, its fans try to prove her humanity. If you believe someone is listening to you, your story is worth telling.

When faced with life's hardships, we often feel lost and confused. There are many things that we can trust to be there for you through the tough times and to help you withstand loneliness. Dolls are one of them.

Although sex dolls are fake real people, their companionship is real. As was the case with Andy, who was terrified, Mr. Gantz, who suffered the loss of his wife, and the Belgian couple who lost their daughter, for whom second-rate companionship is a rare luxury.

“A sex doll is a human companion; sex is only one of its functions.”
Buyers of the dolls, whose psychological needs often outweigh their physical needs, seek spiritual sustenance. In the future, sex dolls can be combined with more advanced artificial intelligence, language synthesis, 3D printing and other advanced technologies to develop functions that better meet people's diverse needs.
You want to ask, what exactly is the meaning of sex dolls? Sex, communication or? There is an untold story behind every sex doll, who knows? Existence is justified, right?